Book Reviews

BOOK REVIEW: Mirror For the Soul by Alice Fryling 

I became interested in the Enneagram several years ago when I first was introduced to 41s5KK3HBRLthe ministry of spiritual direction. It is one of many tools that can help individuals know themselves better, and can help teams of people to know each other better.
As a qualified practitioner of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator®, I am familiar with the concept that knowing ourselves (and our spouses, and our team members) is always a good thing. And while any two evaluative tools will have some overlap, each has its value. Up to this point, I had struggled to understand the Enneagram as one of these tools.  I had attended a seminar, as well as done some reading on it, but had neither grasped the tool well nor been able to find a clear application for Christians.
Some Christians have been reticent to use the Enneagram for a variety of reasons. (Some have been reluctant to use other tools, too, but the push-back against the Enneagram seems to have been more pronounced.)  A follower of Jesus who reads Mirror For the Soul will find his or her fears assuaged, as Alice Fryling integrates her very helpful teaching on the Enneagram with her solid Christian faith in such a way as to disarm the critic and to encourage the believer who is considering using the Enneagram to understand himself or herself more fully.
The book helps the reader understand each aspect of the Enneagram in the most basic way, so that even someone with no knowledge of the instrument can grasp the concepts clearly. Helpfully, Alice Fryling also includes questions for personal reflection and/or group discussion at the end of each chapter, along with a brief Scripture passage and questions relating to it and the portion of the Enneagram just studied.
The book concludes with a brief treatise on how to use the Enneagram in spiritual direction, and some helpful external resources.
Perhaps the one unusual but singularly helpful aspect to the book is that there is no inventory included to help the reader discern her or his own Enneagram number. Instead, the author encourages the reader to review descriptions given in each section so that the reader has to think through, prayerfully, which Enneagram number may be most descriptive.
I highly recommend this book if you are seeking an easily-understood unashamedly Christian take on the Enneagram.
Disclaimer: The reviewer was given a pre-publication copy of the book for the purpose of this review. 
Mirror For the Soul, by Alice Fryling – published by Inter-Varsity Press, 2017.
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